Teen age.

When we enter a phase where we feel all eyes are on us, where we feel we are kept in a cocoon,where our dreams start adding up, where our mind can be diverted and like many say it can either make it or we can get off track, then we say welcome to the PUBERTY.

Teen. An age of thousands of questions in head. Teen is for some of them a age of life where they enjoy, have fun but for some as getting the burden of responsibilities on their shoulders and knowing the burden is going to stay for a while until so called “life aims” are not gained. Being a teen we come up with the trends and occupy and mould it in us. We start to make ourselves fit in this world where they say life is a race. Well, society varies as per our lifestyles but in any of the society we are told to follow the rules as they are. We start knowing the term “Log kya kahenge” and hence just learn to behave well, follow rules.
In this age where teens are supposed to run behind exploring life, they run behind marks, ranks. Surrounding talks by our parents, relatives we start understanding that how much those little numbers can make change in our lives and this understanding remains a truth only until we get them after that we realize ‘scene toh kuch alag hi hai boss’!

We start to know why humans have no wings! We cannot just fly, the world full of judgments, curses won’t let us fly. We live for society, we get bothered by what people say and we start putting efforts for them, but as an adult, the right advise is follow your aims, passion and work hard wherever you can Log toh kahenge unka kaam hai kehna! But as a teen keep happiness your priority .

Well, apart from these life achievement things we also realise that there are rules for even being in love, having a feeling of attraction to someone. It so hard to understand the fact that in teenage the feeling of love and attraction in heart is normal and everyone feels the same. Why it is something which is not right in eyes of society, why the teenagers are said to be spoiled if they have just well secreted hormones. There are so many teenager in India basically who don’t have courage to even speak what they feel about someone to their parents. What problems will they share ,if they can’t share the happiness of heart and sometimes biggest sorrows ,but the problems should be discussed in family itself to avoid the hasty decisions.

Teenage is a age where the mind is a bit of child and a bit of grown up. In this period of life we feel to be in gossips and try to be the coolest in schools/ colleges. Some of them get into drugs thinking that’s cool just because others do.The flickering mind don’t think about the consequences and just go with the flow. We forget the difference between enjoying the life and risking the life. And there are many stories in reality in case of drugs which has ruined teenagers lives. Teenagers are told by the big ones that be around a good circle of friends but no says to first you yourself be a good friend.

Bullying is another very serious issue teenage faces. Mental breakdown is for real. Facing humiliation is not bearable for some of them and so gives up loosing all the confidence in life. Bullying is so cruel which includes beating up with bunch of guys, making them humiliated on social media by sharing personal stuffs. In the period where one has so many problems and pressure from family they face bullying which just forces them to quit. There are lot of ego trips in the young blood which brings them in so much of trouble later. Some of them are away from their families, comes for studies to unknown cities and unknown people and on first day itself are welcomed by their seniors with full of disrespect and humiliation.

From a teenager to being a adult, we grasp how awful our society is and mould ourselves with it. Everyone has their own stories in life being a teenager full of happiness being with friends, anger, tears, sacrifices, tolerance. Some enjoy and have a epic teenage and some start playing with burdens and responsibilities instead of games. Every single person has their own journey, but every journey has something or other to learn as well.