I am a woman – Hear me roar!

A woman!? No! How about an independent woman? That sounds pretty cool right. But our society somewhere does not think it sounds cool. A woman who is exactly born in the same way how men are born but once they enter the world they aren’t accepted the same way. A girl child i supposed to be a burden  on parents which they have to keep with them for some years and with deals of money  is married to someone unknown with not even bothering about her choice. And since then a woman starts sacrificing and this term somewhere is constant. A girl faces Mensturation in her young age, the cramps, the over bleeding has no option but bearing it and somewhere in all these things she starts becoming more and more strong and nurture the gift of nature  and then more and more struggles comes on her way  it could be about facing mental breakdown at puberty, career, relatives, family pressure or may be love affairs and also the pain of carrying a baby for 9 months in womb with so many mood swings and further giving birth to child is like having a lifetime responsibility which cannot be ignored like we ignore our other responsibilities of keeping a clean healthy world or saving water and these things are not mentioned to dominate men but only to empower woman and just to showcase the reality. But all these things are primarily which every girl faces and this is not a secret anymore Everyone knows about it and change is somewhere in a snail walk though slowly but it’s into action.  But guess what ? if these things are getting well somewhere the modern world has modern issues, even in case of women.

Now a woman, is educated, marries whom she want, has become much more independent than before, she knows how to handle a family with children and also be a CEO. Her decisions are in power. She rules it like a queen. But this queen basically being a woman still is not free to live. Cruel world still think she is just a woman and can’t be more than a wife to her husband and should not have a individual life.A life where she is not asked for her body to get a job, a life where she can wear clothes unapologetically , a life where she feels safe while coming home from office at night, a life where she is not judged by her body shape, a simple  life with basic rights is all a woman wants.

There are women with divorces and heartbreaks they loose all their hope for life, future gets blurred,struggle behind the responsibility of being a single mother is beyond explanation but still some of them stands strong faces this cruel world alone and turns the table. But every individual does not have that power of patience or capacity of bearing the pain and struggle and so some give up. But here’s what we should learn, giving up is neither a solution . It will not create any difference or any awareness. Life is unpredictable. You never know what’s next! It can turn just like a caterpillar turning into a beautiful butterfly. Nothing can stop you if you are strong and focused. Of course it’s way more hard in reality then in these little sentences but there are many inspiring stories in reality which will make you believe that it’s never too late to shine.

Roll your sleeves and let them know that what a woman can do. Let them keep saying that girls are not supposed to debate and keep opinions and you silently battle everyday and make your voice heard with your actions. If they say don’t visit temples on periods worship your work and work more and more harder on difficult days of month. If they laugh at you , you silently laugh at them on their mindset. If they tell you to not sit in weird postures make yourself so powerful that you can make them dance on your orders. Let them shoot you with their words, let them cut you with their eyes, let them kill you with their hatefulness but you still like air keep rising higher and higher. Make them realise that they exist because a woman had carried them for 9 months in her womb ! Show them you can turn every stone into diamond which is unbreakable!

And a open request to all the literate men , you could help the women bring this change where she is treated equally and respectfully. You men are a ray of hope which can make a huge difference in these issues just by respecting a woman. By seeing at her in a way where she has to not manage her clothes but her beautiful hair.Accepting the thought that a lady can be your boss. A wife though at home all day also is on 24 hours of duty being housewife,she also deserves a sunday in a year! Every girl has right to choose her life partner so respect her decision and let your daughter marry the one of her choice. A girl just like a guy wants to hangout and explore her life , let her have fun. And make her believe that you stand by her in all ups and downs.

To every woman out there, who is suffering – stay strong it is said that Good actors are given tough roles to act in a film! And storms make the tress take deeper roots.