ENOUGH OF THE EMOTIONAL DICTATORSHIP

“Ups and downs are very important in our life because a straight line even in the ECG machine indicates us dead”. You believe me or not, but sadness is as important as happiness in every being’s life. But don’t let the sadness in your past interfere in the tranquillity of your future. We peel off the skin of the banana before eating it, in the same way we need to focus on the best part of banana and leave the rest. Many a times we waste our time crying on the things which went wrong instead of appreciating the good things going on in our lives. We often let our emotions dictate our actions. So for any individual who wants to succeed in life has to learn the art of letting go, it is the only way to maintain your peace of mind.
Live in the moment and try to write whatever things you appreciate in your surroundings because writing your feelings at the very moment you feel them is according to me the best way of conveying your emotions. When you write about the moment you really lived at its fullest you get to relive it when you are feeling low, it can try to brighten up your day thinking of the day you were happy to be who you were. I would like to share one of the days I wrote, when I was sitting on the terrace, it goes like: “This wind is taking me somewhere else…to some far away land where everybody is kind to each other, where everybody befriends me…nobody cold shoulders me or just fake a smile full of judgements. Here I’ll be strengthened every morning by the bright sun, will be motivated all day by the alchemy of the nature and every night the calm moon will neutralize all the feelings into simple happiness. I hope that one day I will have no regrets and will feel so light that I would be able to float with the breeze for them to carry me to this far away land!” this is the way I write whenever I feel that the moment is truly commendable and needs to be preserved for future hard times.
Helen Keller is my biggest motivator of all times she was stricken blind and deaf when she was 19 months old. She turned into a terror and a tormentor, as she was a kid when she had to fight hard to come to terms with soundless and sightless world. She was the first blind and deaf human to earn a bachelor’s degree, she was awarded the United States’ highest civilian honour, the Presidential Medal of Freedom and many many more. Even without having the two most important senses, she concentrated on the one she had and learnt five languages and wrote many incredible books just by her tactile sense. If she can concentrate on the bright side of her dark world, then why can’t we? By reading her autobiography “The Story of My Life” I got to learn that, use your eyes as if tomorrow you would be stricken blind, hear the music of voice , the song of a bird as if you would be stricken deaf tomorrow. Touch every object as if your tactile sense would fail, smell the sweet perfume of the wind blowing, the wet soil after every rain and taste each morsel, as if tomorrow you could never smell and taste again.
Make the most of every sense; glory in all facets of pleasure and beauty, which the world reveals to you through the several means of contact, which nature provides you with. Don’t regret any moment of your flawful life because you can’t even imagine what flawful means for some people. So last but not the least never forget to FEEL EVERY FEEL