How many of us??

You are too fat to flaunt your curves, you are too dark to get a good Rishta, you are too slim kuch khaya kar yaaar, you are too young to be working, you are too old to get married, you should do something else,theres no scope here,you aren’t in shape to post pics in a tight dress, yeh karlo accha pati milega, wo karlo accha job milega.

These are constant dialogue we hear from so called 4 log(which we aren’t able to find for lifetime) and eventually we grow accepting what we say. This becomes a reason to use fairness creams, why we go to gyms, choosing a stable career that we don’t love, settling on a accha rishta, leaving jobs, taking pills to get in shape and sometimes the burden and the depression.

Ever thought why we end up listening to them ???Why we don’t ho to gym because we want to get fit and feel fresh??? Why don’t we do jobs that we love?? Why don’t we actually choose our happiness and choose what others say about us??

How many of us are totally comfortable seeing in the mirror and not feeling ashamed?? How many of us still blame ourself because something doesn’t work out a relation that broke a year ago?? How many of us think at 3 am that we aren’t good enough for someone pr we aren’t a good child to our parents?? How many of us feel depressed and refuse to speak up because society is our priority and not us??

The most ignored part of our last few generations and most important part of todays generation, the part of life if lacked causes serious damage to mental health, the part which takes years to be discovered and the part which is becomes a priority when discovered is the SELF LOVE.

Loving ourself should be our priority,because when you love yourself,you become your priority, you think of yourself first and this isn’t anything selfish, you are born for yourself and you will die alone then why not live life on our terms?? do what makes you happy, improve because you want to, look in the mirror and be proud how long you have came, love yourself like you expect others to love you, be your own hero,be your own love of life, keep yourself priority and wait for the magic.

Moon won’t look extra beautiful but you will be your own moonlight in the dark!

You won’t hear romantic songs in the background but will surely hear your own voice.

You won’t feel special for someone but the most special person for yourself.

You won’t write love letters but every day you will write a thank you note to yourself for whatever you have and whatever you have achieved.

You won’t need a kundali to match you will need meter of happiness to gain!

You won’t need people to appreciate you, you will be appreciating yourself everyday.

Love the different you, love the most amazing you!!! Then all you will see is the new you, the confident you, the you that doesn’t care about anything, the you that seeks happiness and follows heart

Fall in love with yourself and Rise like there’s nobody as special as you. Accept yourself and forget the rest.

Ohhh wait!! Have you proposed yourself yet???

Say hey me, will you be my most favourite person forever???